What Do We Do?
Ancillary Kink Support is an organisation run by Ancilla L, a long-standing member of the kink-community, creator of erotic content and all-around expert at turning sexuality into a textbook. It is a woman-and-bottom led forum aimed at empowering, guiding and assisting people to explore and embrace the nuances, challenges and psychology of fetishism, especially in India.
We teach classes in negotiation, establishing a safe power-exchange, erotic writing, demos of all things BDSM with a qualified medical professional, communication and much more.
Our blog features detailed, thoroughly-researched and expertly prepared content on kink, fetishism and personal experiences of such practise over the course of a decade.
Recent Posts
- How Rejecting Rituals of Beauty As Self-Care Led Me To Peace.She was sitting at my desk and smoking a cigarette, eyeing my body the way she always has. She eyes it for flaws and fixates, fantasizing about how she would change it if she could carve me with a knife, sometimes she shares her vision for me, more often she shares her disappointment. “You know,… Read more: How Rejecting Rituals of Beauty As Self-Care Led Me To Peace.
- Sex Versus Sanskar: The Price of Renting The Space For Sexual Freedom in India May Be Higher Than Your Realise.Sex and Sanskar is a weekly column about the industry, experience and sociology of sex in India written by Ancilla L of Ancillary Kink Support. Ancilla is a sex-and-kink educator, erotic author, former sex-worker and columnist dedicated to exploring the politics and nuances of sexuality. We were easing into it, his hands were around my… Read more: Sex Versus Sanskar: The Price of Renting The Space For Sexual Freedom in India May Be Higher Than Your Realise.
- There Are Many Traits That Make A Good Sadist, These Are A Few I Value.It’s no secret that I love sadists. For a long time, sadism was the primary trait I looked for in prospective partners and often, when I found it, I fell irretrievably in love. Nothing piques my interest faster than the manifestation of desire to deliver intentional pain to another person. When I was younger, the… Read more: There Are Many Traits That Make A Good Sadist, These Are A Few I Value.
- Submission Works Because Of The Willing Suspension of Disbelief.For a brief period when I was much younger, I genuinely believed that I could only submit or be subjugated by a person who was smarter than me. Momentarily, and very simplistically, it made sense to me that intelligence was a good enough reason to view someone as superior, and they had to be superior… Read more: Submission Works Because Of The Willing Suspension of Disbelief.
- Can You Be Sadistic To Someone You Love?We were sitting down to lunch with a couple of friends we had known for many years. They had been involved in a power-exchange based sadomasochistic relationship with each other for a few years longer than we had been at the time. As we dug into our meal, they asked if they could discuss something… Read more: Can You Be Sadistic To Someone You Love?
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