Class: Identifying Predators And Getting The Most Out Of The Red-Flag Methodology.

Date: 15 January 2023

Time: 5 PM IST

Day: Sunday

Mode: Online

Payment: Free.

Event Details.

A lot of us navigate the kink-and-sex world without any support and end up being victimized by people in our early (or later) years. I have devised a methodology to spot and identify predators by type and to check whether their behaviour is potentially dangerous to you or other people in the community.

What can you expect to learn?

– Why identifying red-flags is inadequate.

– How to circumvent the inadequacies of the red-flag methodology.

– A patented (well, it’s not actually patented, but it is uniquely created by me) system of classifying predators so it is easier to contextualise their behaviour and spot potentially dangerous people.

– Using mindsets instead of flags to identify the potential problems with prospective partners.

Why should you attend this class as a woman?

If you are on the kink scene, especially the Indian kink scene, you are dealing with men every single day and you don’t know how to tell the good from the bad. This extremely detailed, organised and structured approach acts as a cheatsheet to help you ask the right questions, look for the right things and raise alarm before it is too late.

Why should you attend this class as a man?

Predators and problematic people who intend to cause harm are much more rare than those who have ingrained problematic behaviours that are socially-taught. You may “mean well” and may still be freaking people out with your behaviour, this class may help you unpackage your privilege, identify what parts of your behaviour are tiresome and terrifying to women, learn how you may have been making women feel and how to do better.

Other details: – Since this is my first class (and it is more social-service than anything), the first batch of it will be free to attend for all people. I only ask that you leave a review of the class on this page after you attend it. I may teach a second batch that is more accessible to people in other time-zones.

– Seating will be limited and since this is a woman-focused class, women will have priority when it comes to seating.

– Kindly RSVP on this thread as well as the event page, the attendance links will only be shared with people who have confirmed attendance. Please confirm attendance by Noon (IST), 14 January.

– This class will be about 90-minutes and there will be a section for questions at the end.

– The class will ne taught over Google Meet.

– Each attendee will received course material prepared by me.

– Whether there is one student or 25, I will teach the class as planned (which is something my favourite professor used to say and I am thrilled I got to use it).

If I doubt you intentions, doubt is raised about your safety or if you seem disruptive, you will not be allowed at this event. All general rules applicable to my events shall apply.

– IF YOU READ ABOUT THIS CLASS ON MY WEBSITE AND YOU WANT TO ATTEND, SEND ME A MESSAGE (AT lancilla80@gmail.com to be vetted), BUT IF YOU ARE A FETLIFE USER, AN EVENT LINK WILL BE POSTED LATER TODAY AND YOU CAN RSVP THERE)