Ancilla hosts a podcast called “BUT, THAT’S NOT MY POINT” that is hosted on Patreon. It is about kink, relationships, feminism, love and the digressive form (a la Lawrence Sterne in Tristam Shandy). There are several public episodes that are listed below, if you like them you can subscribe to the podcast for only $2 (or the equivalent in the currency of your country) a month.
PUBLIC EPISODES:
Predators and where to find them.
If you are a woman or any under-represented minority looking to explore your sexuality, you are more likely to run up against predators waiting to take advantage of you. This is a detailed guide on how to spot a predator.
What is edge-play and is it really worth it?
Edge-play is a popular form of fetishistic engagement that places the centre of the thrill on the risk, but can it be safely practised? And if it can, how?
Gender and The Politics of Clothing.
Gender is a complex phenomena and its representation often reduced to symbols like clothing, jewellery, colours and behaviours. What are the politics of your clothing? Have you ever contemplated how you experience your gender in the absence of all of society? Let’s contemplate together.
What makes an unsafe bottom?
We frequently discuss the responsibilities of the tops and doms (and we should) but what is the responsibility of the bottom? Can bottoms be unsafe? How do you spot an unsafe bottom?
The definition of sex and the idea of women not liking it.
How do we define sex? We talk about expanding that definition to move it away from PIV and heteronormative spaces all the time, but how do you really do it? The reputation that women have for not liking sex has to do with its restrictive definition, how do we move away from that?
Top ten kink things that give me the ick.
I’m not above shits and giggles! I am as kinky as the next person but there are definitely kink-things that are a massive cringefest and I want to make fun of them!
If you enjoyed those episodes and want access to the 40 other episodes posted to my Patreon, please consider subscribing at the link above!
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